Sunday, October 4, 2009

Something I read

I read something today that completely ripped my heart open. Please take time to read this post from Elisse Stuart’s Weblog as it may strike a similar chord with you. It honestly felt like this woman MUST have been inside my head!

http://elissestuart.wordpress.com/2009/01/15/narcissistic-curtain-calls/


As I read Ms. Stuart's words, I immediately connected with them. It's been nearly 8 months since my final "curtain call'' and I'm just beginning to reclaim my life. The emotional damage is so profound that very few people can understand. As I've said many times before, I hate to know that others have gone through that very painful experience of being deceived, devalued and discarded, but it helps to know that someone understands how it feels.

25 comments:

  1. Dear Clearly:
    I am touched that you were so moved by my post that you blogged about it on your site.
    I am sorry that it re-opened old wounds for you; that will happen for a time while you heal. The emotional damage is indeed profound. Only those who have suffered abuse at the hand of an N truly understands.
    I hope that you will continue to write/read and heal.
    Peace & blessings to you,
    Elisse Stuart

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      back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids,
      I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us
      with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell
      caster called Dr.frankely of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one
      faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several
      of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified
      that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores
      womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, you can contact him on (
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  2. Been reading your blog. I wish I had found you & others like you earlier. Unlike you, I abandoned my narcissist. Wow! That was a wild ride. The first person who ever abandoned him. Your story is compelling. Nobody can understand what being caught in the web of a narcissist means until one escapes the web. Of the so-called "good times" -- the illusion of love. Created in your own mind. He was never there. All that was there was the power of your love. He never saw you. Sorry for your boys.

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  4. I was married to one for 16 years. A surgeon. I don't have time to write tonight but will some time tomorrow.

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  5. hi, i am in the process of writing a blog of my experiences of being with a somatic narcissistic wife, and i hope that it will be of some help to others out there in the same boat
    somatic narcissistic wife

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  6. I was married to a narcissist for five years, and I can tell you that those were some of the worst years of my life. NPD is so tricky, because it can look like confidence, or drive, or just a lack of empathy. But it's so much more than that. Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone! And I love your blog. If you're interested, there's a lot of great info about NPD at http://onlineceucredit.com/edu/social-work-ceus-nar - You're blog is wonderful. By sharing your story, you're helping so many.

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  7. How are you now? Are you over him? If yes, how long did it take to get him out of your head?

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    1. My name is jennifer smith, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is
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      I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us
      with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell
      caster called Dr.frankely of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one
      faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several
      of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified
      that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores
      womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, you can contact him on (
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  13. How I Got My Ex Husband Back...........

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    1. My name is jennifer smith, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is
      back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids,
      I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us
      with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell
      caster called Dr.frankely of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one
      faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several
      of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified
      that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores
      womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, you can contact him on (
      drfrankely@gmail.com or drfrankely@yahoo.com) or call him +13473807899.you
      can also view his web site: http://drfrankely4.wixsite.com/mysite ....he is
      the best caster that can help you with your problems. whatsapp +2347051767135

      My name is jennifer smith, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is
      back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids,
      I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us
      with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell
      caster called Dr.frankely of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one
      faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several
      of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified
      that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores
      womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, you can contact him on (
      drfrankely@gmail.com or drfrankely@yahoo.com) or call him +13473807899.you
      can also view his web site: http://drfrankely4.wixsite.com/mysite ....he is
      the best caster that can help you with your problems. whatsapp +2347051767135

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  14. I am so grateful to this man just incase you also need him to help you, you can contact him through his Website: http://greatdrogudugusolutiontemple.webs.com

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  16. My name is jennifer smith, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is
    back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids,
    I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us
    with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell
    caster called Dr.frankely of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one
    faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several
    of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified
    that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores
    womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, you can contact him on (
    drfrankely@gmail.com or drfrankely@yahoo.com) or call him +13473807899.you
    can also view his web site: http://drfrankely4.wixsite.com/mysite ....he is
    the best caster that can help you with your problems. whatsapp +2347051767135

    My name is jennifer smith, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is
    back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids,
    I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us
    with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell
    caster called Dr.frankely of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one
    faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several
    of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified
    that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores
    womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, you can contact him on (
    drfrankely@gmail.com or drfrankely@yahoo.com) or call him +13473807899.you
    can also view his web site: http://drfrankely4.wixsite.com/mysite ....he is
    the best caster that can help you with your problems. whatsapp +2347051767135

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  17. My name is jennifer smith, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is
    back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids,
    I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us
    with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell
    caster called Dr.frankely of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one
    faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several
    of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified
    that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores
    womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, you can contact him on (
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